significance of love in modern times

yeasterday i saw the film "love aaj kal". it is a bold film in current context.comparision between we type of love and modern love. "kutch karna" means physical relationship used to be very personal and pious relationship after marriage in our time ,but now first you do that kutch and if feel like commit or may have living relationship or may be marriage.
in the film hero realised his love when heroine got married. still hero feels to marry he went and proposed and marry.heroines marriage ,seperation,long distance seperated broken relationship has no meaning. in indian culture where pati parmeshwar concept is there, karve choth ,mangal sutra ,life time commitment is there where we indian feel that if married it is THE END. we have to raise the family and fulfill our dharma but in this movie heroine casually take divorce after one year of dating,sleeping,and going through arrange marriage with full tradition and still nothing matters. WHAT IS THIS?
our indian culture traditions are breaking. we could fight muslim culture invasion and british culture invasion because of our family tradition i.e. indian marriage system. once married over. we used to hear "" beta jhis ghar tery dolly jaye usi ghar se aarthi uthe" no concept of divorce.
parents sacrificrd everything fof children. modern graduate with a job and no liablity is the outcome of parents sacrifice. arrange marriage,commitment and budgeting for children future and when future become today there slogan is " i me myself and my career". IS IT THE RIGHT ATTITUDE FOR SOCIETY?
THEY ARE NOT SURE OF THEMSELVES.
females are the backbone of indian culture and society. i am what i am, because of my mother and father. child needs both to grow. can he develop properly if he is not sure of mother/father love. may be to face three mothers and four fathers in his life time. see his loss of identity and emotional crisis.
i was thinking what is that which is beyond all this. i find it is your search of SOUL MATE.
EACH CONCIOUSNESS,SOUL,INTELLIGENCE HAS TAKEN FORM OF HUMANE BODY TO LOVE AND TO BE LOVED
your soul mate can be a female/male/animal. he may be of any caste creed ,age ,nationality
religion. your craving for love and to be loved to your soul mate is very compeeling. society law and convention will not be of any obstrucyion. it is like flooding river who destroy any obstruction. this film end ,indicates to that feeling .
in arrange marriage there is logic and practicallity. no emotions. no body asks after first meeting "do you love each other ? parents only ask 'do u like each other"
friends ,
to marry a person whom you just like and fulfill the vows of marriage may be dharam ,may be society requirement ,may be the most logical and practical thing ,may be nationalism but it is not fulfiling the craving of your innermost i.e. to love and to be loved .
now i say if you really feel that he/she is your soulmate and you want to love and to be loved unconditionally then go for it . i say it is the purpose of LIFE THE HUMAN LIFE.BEYOND THAT NOTHING MATTERS.

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